Tips to Pick the Right Vibrator: A Guide For Newbies

Chances are, you don’t have lots of money in your pocket to burn on testing out numerous types of vibrators to settle on “the one.” So before you purchase one, you need to know the basics so you can narrow down your options.

Price

Vibrators can be costly, especially if you buy them from a specialized store. So before you begin your search, decide on what you’re ready to spend, but keep in mind a few things. The cheapest vibrators likely aren’t worth it. They might be made of cheap materials, too small to hold onto comfortably (or safely), and not be body-safe. They might also be weak, making for pretty disappointing.

The most costly ones might not be worth it either. Yes, the ones with the most features might run high, but if you’re willing to spend a fair amount of money, you can probably find one that’s pleasurable, safe, and made of suitable materials (like silicone).

Consider Size

With options including big wand-like vibrators and discrete ones that fit in the palm of your hand out there, it can be difficult to anticipate which size will bring you the most pleasure if you’re a first-timer. “There’s so much to choose from. When we have so many choices, we get devastated, and feeling overwhelmed leads to anxiety—the exact contrary of pleasure. But don’t worry—we have a solution.

Consider what you enjoy most when you masturbate and have sex. If pleasing yourself with one finger does the trick, a large or penis-looking vibrator might pack too much punch or stimulate too many areas at once. On the other hand, if your partner is well-endowed or the strap-on you use during sex isn’t lacking size-wise, bigger might be better. 

Narrow Down your Ideal Shape and Sensation

Once you’ve determined width and length, bring size and sensation into the equation. Zeroing in on the sensation you want will help you choose the best shape for your vibrator.

There are five types of pleasure sensations people tend to seek out: internal, clitoral, an internal-clitoral combo, anal, and double penetration (vaginal + anal). And since the minds behind vibrators know satisfaction comes from many locales, they’ve made tons of uniquely shaped toys that can adjust to just about anything you’re looking for.

Look Closely at Material and Texture

It’s crucial to check out what a sex toy is made of before buying it. The vibrator is going in and on your body, after all. Silicone is a favorite, and many well-known brands use only medical-grade silicone. Silicone “transmits vibration well, and it’s non-porous and easy to clean with soap and water, making it safe and healthy for the body. Other great options include stainless steel, metal, and hard plastic.

Make Sure You Like Its Look

The aesthetics of powerful vibrators are almost as important as what it does—after all, this is something you’re using to get turned on. No matter how powerful the vibrator is, it would be a big mistake to buy something you think looks scary, tacky, or aesthetically unappealing. So skip that hot pink vibe unless you love how it shines on your nightstand.